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About the time we attended a Chinese Wedding

About the time we attended a Chinese Wedding
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There’s a running joke amongst our friends. If the two of us are invited to a wedding in the town we live, we won’t make it (because we are perpetually on the go!). However if we are invited to a wedding 10,000 miles away, we will definitely make it. Can you blame us? The lure of seeing a new destination while attending a friend’s wedding – who wouldn’t be tempted?

 

When one of Vid’s closest friends from university days in Singapore announced his wedding in Melaka, a small town near Kuala Lumpur, guess who the first guests to RSVP were?

 

We flew from London to Kuala Lumpur and reached Melaka on the day of the wedding. Reunited with our friends who flew from Paris, we got dressed, all set to take on the day. The entire day went by in a tizzy as we chatted, celebrated, ate and then ate some more :-)

 

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The two of us with the bride and groom :-)

 

The wedding festivities began in the morning, when the groom and his troop of friends and brothers arrived at the bride’s place to “fetch” her. Also known as the gatecrashing ceremony, fetch-the-bride sees the groom participate in fun games and bribe the bridesmaids to get to his bride. Sounds fun, doesn’t it?

 

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The groom and his troop arrive to fetch the bride (Photo Credit: David Chew)

 

Next up the wedding reception in the evening. Food and wine started pouring in almost as soon as we were shown to our table and it never stopped. Unending food and drink – always the sign of a good party! There were eight courses but my favourite would have to be the elaborate entrée platter that was served on a bed of dry ice. Take a look at this piece of art:

 

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Entrée Platter – notice the cloud of dry ice?

 

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Pork scratchings – did you notice the piggie tail at the end?

 

We spent some time acquainting ourselves with two families who were hosting the party and learning some bad words in Chinese. Before we knew it the groom (David) was welcoming the bride (June) who looks absolutely resplendent in a sparkly white gown. David is an opera singer and photographer and he left no stone unturned to woo his wife in front of his family and friends. The next hour flew past as he sang for his wife (cue unending ‘awwws’) and showcased a host of videos compiled from photographs he had clicked over the years. Can you blame June for shedding a tear?

 

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David sings for June

 

Before we knew it, the two of them did a disappearing act (not what you think ;-) ) and changed into traditional Chinese wedding costumes. The regal attire was unlike anything we had ever seen before. They looked picture perfect. We’ll put an end to the swooning and just show you a photograph instead :-

 

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The bride and groom in traditional Chinese wedding attire

 

By this time all those glasses of wine and the cognac served by David’s dad and brother had obviously gotten to our heads, the proof of which you see below:

 

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We had some fake moustaches at hand and we put them to VERY good use ;-)

 

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Tomfoolery part 2 ;)

 

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The cutest of them all

 

The sensible thing to do would’ve been to stop and retire to our hotel rooms like all the other guests at the wedding. But we never said we were prudent did we? So we continued the party with our friends at the food court next door. We don’t remember much of what conspired next – always the sign of an excellent night ;-)

 

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All of us at a local food court in Melaka

 

Fact File

Here are five things we bet you didn’t know about Chinese weddings:

  • Shark Meat might be a taboo topic in the rest of the world but Shark Fin Soup is a staple at Chinese weddings. It is symbolic of the prosperity of the host.
  • Most Chinese couples don’t register for gifts. Instead guests offer cash, known as Ang Pao, in ornate envelopes to the newly weds.
  • We found it amusing that guests started leaving the wedding venue as soon as dinner got over. A Chinese wedding isn’t the place for you if you like partying late into the night ;-)
  • Food is scrumptious and plentiful – from pork scratchings and sushi to honey glazed chicken and grilled fish, everything is on the menu. David and June’s wedding dinner consisted of eight courses – nom!!!
  • The ritual of toasting the newly weds is the highlight of Chinese weddings. Everyone stands, raises their glasses to toast the newly weds and a resounding  Yum Seng (cheers) follows. It was our favourite part of the wedding.

 

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Yum Seng – toasting the newly-weds

 

This was the first stop on our recent trip to South East Asia. After exploring Melaka, we flew to Cambodia.

 

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19 Comments

  1. Chinese wedding seems to be fun :D . The wedding couple is super cute. The entree platter looks too colorful and yummy :)
    laks recently posted…Buying Smartphone – Basic RequirementsMy Profile

    • It was an absolute riot, Laks. We haven’t had so much fun in the longest time :)

  2. Seems like an interesting wedding! Love the traditional wedding attire!
    Vicky recently posted…Brunch at the Sydney Fish MarketMy Profile

    • It was a great experience Vicky :)

  3. That’s amazing. I had no clue about Chinese wedding but it sounds superb, especially the food minus pig tail (no offense) I wouldn’t have noticed if it wasn’t in the caption hehe The bride and groom look lovely. God bless them and happy married life. Sure looked like a great party. I know the name Melaka because where I went to college, they’ve set up a branch in Melaka too. What was the place like? Any more pics and posts on Melaka? i would love to read :)
    coralcrue recently posted…What I ate today for lunchMy Profile

  4. Beautiful photos, looks like a great wedding. Lucky you to have friends in so far away places!

    • :)

      We are definitely very lucky to have friends all over the world. Makes travelling all the more fun if you have locals to take you around to the hidden places :)

  5. Looks like such a fun wedding and Melaka would be the perfect location to celebrate! Didn’t you find the town totally charming?! :) I was just there about a week ago for my second visit and I enjoyed it just as much the second time around.
    Audrey recently posted…Petra: Journeying into the Lost CityMy Profile

    • Hey Audrey,

      Melaka was amazing – we had such a good time there. It’s so charming and gorgeous. And the food – my God. It’s to die for, isn’t it ??

      We were there around Chinese New Year and everyone was so happy. We loved the hello kitty rickshaws too ;)

  6. Nice to have a little peak of what a Chinese wedding is like :-) The bride & the groom look amazing in the traditional clothing.
    AkwaabaGolden recently posted…How do you know if you have Malaria?My Profile

    • It was our first time at a Chinese wedding too and we had such a blast :) So good to see ceremonies in different cultures, isn’t it ?

  7. When was the actual wedding ceremony? What type of ceremony was it? Buddhist? Taoist? Some hybrid of different traditions? We also love attending weddings. So far, our favorite are Indian weddings. Fun even without copious amounts (if any) of alcohol or meat.
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    • Suzanne,

      The actual wedding ceremony was in the morning :) It was definitely a lot of fun – there was some alcohol involved, but we saved the majority of that for the after party ;)

  8. aww the couple is really very cute.. love the bride’s dress.. and the food looks yum!
    Ritu R recently posted…Summers are here!My Profile

    • Ritu both of them looked amazing. The food was the best Chinese food we have had in a while !

  9. AWwww now I want to attend a Chinese wedding!! It looked so surreal man… <3

    • It was amazing :-)

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